In the meantime

In the meantime, I’m confused. 

false hopes

Why is it that the people you love the most feel it’s okay to hurt you? You would think that anyone who has been lied to, cheated on, or abused knows the pain it causes. How does a person look another in the eye and tell them lies? How does a person accept love , support and comforts from another then deny them the same? 

LIFE ISN’T ABOUT KEEPING SCORE… Life isn’t about keeping score. It’s not about how many people call you and it’s not about who you’ve dated, are dating, or haven’t dated at all. It isn’t about who you’ve kissed, what sport you play, or which girl or guy likes you. It’s not about your shoes or your hair or the color of your skin or where you live or go to school. In fact, it’s not about grades, money, clothes, or colleges that accept you. Life isn’t about if you have lots of friends, or if you are alone, and it’s not about how accepted or unaccepted you are. Life just isn’t about that. But life is about who you love and who you hurt. It’s about how you feel about yourself. It’s about trust, happiness, and compassion. It’s about sticking up for your friends and replacing inner hate with love. Life is about avoiding jealousy, overcoming ignorance, and building confidence. It’s about what you say and what you mean. It’s about seeing people for who they are and not what they have. Most of all, it’s about choosing to use your life to touch someone else’s in a way that could never have been achieved otherwise. These choices are what life’s about.

LIFE ISN’T ABOUT KEEPING SCORE… 
Life isn’t about keeping score. It’s not about how many people call you and it’s not about who you’ve dated, are dating, or haven’t dated at all. It isn’t about who you’ve kissed, what sport you play, or which girl or guy likes you. It’s not about your shoes or your hair or the color of your skin or where you live or go to school. In fact, it’s not about grades, money, clothes, or colleges that accept you. 
Life isn’t about if you have lots of friends, or if you are alone, and it’s not about how accepted or unaccepted you are. Life just isn’t about that. But life is about who you love and who you hurt. It’s about how you feel about yourself. It’s about trust, happiness, and compassion. It’s about sticking up for your friends and replacing inner hate with love. 
Life is about avoiding jealousy, overcoming ignorance, and building confidence. It’s about what you say and what you mean. It’s about seeing people for who they are and not what they have. Most of all, it’s about choosing to use your life to touch someone else’s in a way that could never have been achieved otherwise. 
These choices are what life’s about.

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SHUT UP AND ENJOY THE MUSI

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Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.       -Mark Twain

Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.
       -Mark Twain

Our priority’s will define us.

Our priority’s will define us.

If you think your dreams will come true overnight, think again – dreams take time. It’s the journey that gives dreams their meaning. If you think dreams come without disappointments, think again – they will come, but no disappointment is insurmountable unless you give up. If you think your dreams are impossible, think again – every heartbeat tells you they aren’t. If you think your dreams exceed your abilities, think again – today’s abilities exceed yesterday’s and tomorrow’s will exceed today’s. It’s not lack of ability that holds you back, but lack of faith. It’s in achieving them that you find true happiness… ~Nancye Simms

If you think your dreams will come true overnight, think again – dreams take time. It’s the journey that gives dreams their meaning. If you think dreams come without disappointments, think again – they will come, but no disappointment is insurmountable unless you give up. If you think your dreams are impossible, think again – every heartbeat tells you they aren’t. If you think your dreams exceed your abilities, think again – today’s abilities exceed yesterday’s and tomorrow’s will exceed today’s. It’s not lack of ability that holds you back, but lack of faith. It’s in achieving them that you find true happiness… ~Nancye Simms

If you are not getting the results you want, change the message.

Shut the hell up!

I hear people complain all the time, I do it myself more than I care to admit. It’s to hot it’s to cold, there’s no time, Im bored, yack, yack, yack. I’m out riding my bike this morning and thinking about how people are never satisfied with what they have,always wanting more. Wanting more even before they even deserve or have earned it. You’re special why again? I finish my ride at the local Starbucks and as I’m ordering I hear a child laughing which brings a smile to my face. I look over and see a girl of about 6 or 7 in a wheelchair with no legs, laughing because her brother is making faces. Once again slapped in the face with reality. You think you deserve something just because you exist? Piss off!

Move along…

Why do people persist in a dissatisfying relationship, unwilling either to work toward solutions or end it and move on?

It’s because they know changing will lead to the unknown, and most people believe that the unknown will be much more painful than what they’re already experiencing.”